EDGEUCATION: A Wedding Planner’s Perspective - Why Catering Shapes Your Entire Wedding Day

Written by Marielle Gentile - Planner for Petite Pearl Events

As a wedding planner, I see behind the scenes of hundreds of weddings (the timelines, the logistics, the moments that flow effortlessly… and the ones that don’t). And if there’s one thing I can say with certainty, it’s this:

Catering is the backbone of your wedding day experience.

From guest flow and timelines to design, rentals, and atmosphere, catering touches every part of your celebration. When couples understand this early, planning becomes smoother,  and the wedding day feels intentional, elevated, and unforgettable. Here are things I wish I knew: 

1. YOUR VENUE & CATERING ARE INSEPERABLE

When couples book their venue, catering should be the very next conversation. The space determines everything from service style to staffing needs, kitchen logistics, and rentals.

As a planner, I always recommend scheduling a site visit with your catering team early. An experienced caterer will assess:

• Prep and kitchen space

• Power and access points

• Load-in logistics

• Guest flow and service timing

Working with full-service caterers like Edge ensures these details are addressed proactively, not discovered on your wedding day.

2. CATERING SHAPES THE GUEST EXPERIENCE

Design isn’t just about florals and linens, it’s about how guests move through the day.

As planners, we think about:

• Where cocktail hour naturally unfolds

• How guests transition into dinner

• When food service supports speeches, dancing, and timeline shifts

Food has the power to create connection. Shared plates, interactive stations, and thoughtfully paced courses all influence how your guests feel engaged, and cared for.

5. FOOD IS ONE OF THE MOST EMOTIONAL PARTS OF THE DAY

Food isn’t just fuel, it’s memory. As a planner, I see guests talk about:

• Cocktail hour canapés

• Beautiful grazing displays 

• Interactive food station 

• Signature cocktails 

• The main course

• Late-night snacks

• Thoughtful accommodations for dietary needs

A well-curated menu elevates the entire experience and leaves guests feeling considered and cared for.

6. CHOOSING THE RIGHT CATERING STYLE

The service style you choose affects the energy of the evening.

• Canapés create movement and mingling

• Stations bring energy and interaction

• Family-style feels warm and communal

• Plated dinners feel refined and intentional

• Buffets offer efficiency and value when executed well

A strong catering partner helps couples choose a style that aligns with their vision, venue, and guest count,  not just what’s trending.

9. LOGISTICS ARE WHERE EXPERIENCE SHOWS

The difference between a good wedding and a seamless one often comes down to logistics. As planners, we rely on catering teams to execute:

• Proper staffing ratios

• Chef assignments

• Service timing

• Smooth load-in and load-out

Edge consistently delivers on this level of execution, allowing planners and couples to relax and enjoy the day.

3. START CATERING PLANNING EARLY

For peak wedding season dates, catering should be booked 12 months in advance whenever possible. Early planning allows:

• Menu customization

• Flexible tasting dates

• Accurate rental planning

• Proper chef and staffing allocation

From a planning perspective, early catering decisions make every other vendor conversation easier and more aligned.

4. WHY PLANNERS AND CATERERS MUST WORK TOGETHER

Some venues require a professional planner, and from experience, I can say this collaboration is invaluable. Planners and caterers work hand in hand to:

• Build realistic timelines

• Co-create floor plans

• Anticipate service challenges

• Ensure rentals and décor are accounted for

Edge Catering is the type of catering partner planners trust - detail-oriented, communicative, and deeply invested in execution.

7. CATERING AND BUDGET GO HAND IN HAND

Catering is one of the most significant investments in your wedding, and it includes far more than food. From a planner’s lens, catering budgets account for:

• Food and beverage

• Staffing and chefs

• Rentals and service ware

• Transportation and logistics

An experienced caterer helps couples prioritize wisely, balancing must-haves with nice-to-haves without sacrificing guest experience.

8. RENTALS, PRESENTATION & FLOW MATTER

Catering influences:

• Table layouts

• Plate and glassware selections

• Linen and napkin choices

• Food presentation and timing

Edge Catering supports planners by managing rental coordination and ensuring everything is accurately reflected in the final order, reducing stress and vendor overlap.

A PLANNER’S FINAL THOUGHT

Your wedding day is about connection, presence, and shared moments. When catering is planned with intention and executed by a trusted team, everything flows more naturally.

As a wedding planner, partnering with a catering team like Edge Catering means knowing your guests will be cared for, your timeline will stay intact, and your vision will be brought to life beautifully and seamlessly.

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Photography: Tomasz Wagner - Planner/Creative Director: Xochi Clara - Venue: The Polygon Gallery - Rentals: Loungeworks Rentals, Koncept Event Design - Florals: Ecorce Flowers - Signage: Making Memories Stationary, Printed by Ray

Makeup & Hair: Makeup by Supernova - Cake: Le Gateau Bake Shop - Fashion: Fern & Moon, Everly Fine Bridal, Bespoke Made Suits - Balloon Install: Little Rose Party Company Rentals - Rings: Cavalier Gastown - Models: Alaeria Agency